
I lose my calm plenty
But will always be quick at apologies
Demand my me-space and time
But will never leave them crying
May run out of their favorite snacks
But will always leave hand written notes in their lunch bags
Forget some dates on the calendar
But will always remember the names of all their dinosaurs
May not be able to attend all the PTA meetings
But will always make time for bedtime reading
Do spend time on my phone and laptop
But Will always love to pretend play in castles and workshops
Run outside the house in a hurry
But will never before a kiss, two or three
I am a mother without a handbook on raising kids
I make mistakes and leave messes
But I Promise, for every imperfection, I will always look for a close-to perfect fix.
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This post is a result of a guilt trip owing to not being able to attend an event in my kid’s school. Work commitments superseded this time.
I well realize I am not the first mom who’s felt this way and probably will not be the last either.
So for all my fellow-mamas, juggling a couple of worlds, who find themselves occasionally in such boats, this is for you. ❤️
Absolutely wonderful, Pallavi, and really I believe your the best kind of mom. Really and truly, I never wanted perfection in my own mother … just genuine love, caring and nurture, kindness and understanding, and always the knowledge she would be there for me. I believe, then, that you must be an especially wonderful mother! Blessings to you and your dear children!
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Aw! This really made my day. ❤️❤️
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So very glad to hear! You are most welcome! ❤ 🙂 ❤ 🙂
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Your kids are lucky to have a mum like you ❤
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Thanks Kathy! You’re so sweet!
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Being a mom means having guilt – no way around it. Common sense and pragmatism helps. What a great exercise.
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This post is just ❤
Such lovely babies!!!!
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Thank you! 💕
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In our complicated and imperfect world we will always suffer from personal guilt complexes…. the trick is to ignore societies frivolous attitudes and demands. and believe in yourself, knowing that you are doing the best you can, and that the love you give is holding onto your hands……. xxxx…
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Oh, mom guilt. How I know this whirlwind of emotion all too well. Guilt gnaws at us like a terminte chews through wood. Guilt is a big burden to bear. We can’t change what happened so we punish ourselves or we see ourselves as terrible mothers Guilt does nothing to change the situation or the relationship with our child. We also use guilt for a basis for our self-esteem, when we don’t believe that we meet up to the standards of other moms or even our own standard.
It sounds that you are a mother of small children. I have an adult son and I can tell you that especially in the teen years our kids feel “misunderstood” and as moms we tend to overact to choices they make. We should always do the best we can, but at times we will make mistakes and we shouldn’t beat ourselves up, just make the needed changes.
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Believe me, your kids are so lucky to have you and you’re doing an amazing job raising them. Wonderful post! 😍👌
PS: Pallavi, the picture is just perfect 💕
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Aw!! You are a sweetheart 💕
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Beautifully expressed .. Pallavi ♥️..I too have gone through this many times…and love the picture..cute kids and beautiful you ♥️
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Thank you so much Sarika ❤️
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My pleasure dear 💕
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Awesome post yar.. you kids are adorable
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Aw! Thank you.
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There is no manual. Don’t worry.
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So true! 😩😃
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Haha! Again, don’t worry, you will be fine. Though it’s a never-ending job. My daughters are past 30, and we still help them many times… 🙂 And it’s a pleasure.
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