We love being parents, its the biggest blessing of our lives. But let’s be honest – every once in a while we do have those languishing moments where we go – WHAT THE (CHOICE WORDS) DID I GET MYSELF INTO?!
Took a plunge, blindfolded, from 3000 feet with a boulder tied to my legs – all the while, hoping that the parachute in my backpack will eventually open. REALLY???!!!! one more time – WHAT THE BLEEEEP DID I GET MYSELF INTO?!
Drawing parallels between the two worlds, there are three things which I find similar between parenting and blogging.
- SHORTAGE OF Time, NOT ENOUGH Time and once again, Time – Between writing on all the ideas exploding in my head to reading all the wonderful posts to finding new bloggers, I feel I am constantly stretching myself thin.
Parents..sound familiar?
My solution – Divide and conquer. Don’t bite more than you can chew. Decide the things most important to you and then divide your time accordingly. For me its simple – while writing is important, its also important to communicate and develop a community. Therefore, there are days when I focus on my content and days when only read and interact. - No right or wrong – I am an exceptionally analytical person. My mind functions in order and organized settings, where there’s a right way of doing things and a wrong.
To my dismay, there’s no such thing as “right” in this gig called parenthood and blogging.
My solution – Perseverance and continuous evolution is the name of the game. Embrace chaos. Because only then will you find a way to navigate and make sense of that day in and day out. Sticking with it even when you want to give up, is what makes you sail through. - Vulnerability with each publish – I will admit that I want to be read and that’s why I am writing here and not in my diary. So it’s only normal that each time I click that publish button, I wonder if it will be read, liked or ignored.
It’s like I question my skill set as a writer every single time, just like I do as a parent.
My solution – Cherish small victories. Confidence in anything isn’t a destination but a trek. Celebrating small successes and not waiting around for something too big to affirm one’s faith is the way to do it.
No matter what your story or reason is, to be a parent or a blogger, it’s a process, a journey, an expedition. It’s not easy – each day will be different and same, each day will bring about new challenges and happiness. The only thing to do is celebrate and go on.
Remember – The only successful stories are the ones that survived to tell a story!
So cheers to all of you – parents and bloggers! See you on the other side – WE GOT THIS ❤️
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Loved the post! You have a great list of all the problems we face as bloggers (I don’t know anything about parenting yet, but I am sure that you are right!). The point about vulnerability is bang on!!
Happy Diwali!! 🙂
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Happy Diwali to you too! ❤️
Thank you for reading and commenting.
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You’re welcome , I enjoyed it! 🙂
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Yes!! This! What a great analogy. I love how you provided solutions as well. I will definitely work on these. I especially love what you say about cherishing the small victories. Thank you for sharing ❤️.
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Thank you Jenny! I was half way through writing this post and suddenly it struck me that the two are really so similar 😜
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Hahaa! It’s funny the things that come up as we write 🙂
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A great post pallavi and you have drawn the parallels so well. While they are together and share the same problems, they cannot intersect. Each one needs their own space.
Well said 👍
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Thank you for reading and commenting Deepika 🙏💕
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I agree, Pallavi, blogging is a lot like parenting…a full time job. It is time consuming but worth all the time we spend here. Hang in there, you will get the hang of balancing writing and reading. Building relationships is very important here. All the best. 🙂
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Thanks Punam. I wholeheartedly agree with you?
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❤️🤗
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Ugh..no question mark. 🤦♀️
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Lol I do such things all the time! 😂
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Interestingly written. Great read Pallavi ❤
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Thank you Savvy 😃
Btw you have a wonderful name. 😊
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You are welcome 👍 And thank you as well Pallavi. 💕🙏💕
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Often writing a blog post is a laborious process and it takes me a few hours to produce something really good. And then edit. I read that the headline needs to be good because 8 out of then people will continue on after that. The next is a boring intro paragraph. This is where we lose people. I think it’s best to start with a personal story, some statistics, a bit controversy, but you have to convey to the reader what you plan to accomplish with the post. If it’s boring, they’re done.
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Rightly said. Thanks for sharing your insights. 😊
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Its really nice Pallavi..keep on going !
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Thanks for stopping by and leaving such encouraging comments 😊
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Excellent post! Great insight and fantastic advise…really appreciate the information and the knowledge. You have a wonderful blog and I truly admire your work and the way you approach, parenting as well as blogging and probably most things in your life. Cheers! And all the best, my greetings from Spain!
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Great post! Really appreciate the comparison between parenting and blogging.
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Thank you so much!
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Vulnerability in each publish… How very true. Not only do we want acceptance, but like you said many of us here have a STORY that we want to share. And sometimes it can be so very rewarding, while others I find myself second guessing “Should I really have put that information out there for the whole world to see?”
Wonderful post, and so much truth behind it!
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Some very valid points. I think the time thing is true for everything. There is never enough of it no matter what stage of your life you are at.
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Very true. You always have to MAKE time. Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts.
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Hi! For some reason your blog adventuresinmummychaos isn’t working. Have you changed it or I am doing something wrong?
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Hi. Thank you for letting me know. The link should be: https://journeysinmummychaos.travel.blog
I sure you are not doing anything wrong. It’s probably me. I’ve only just started blogging last week and I haven’t upgraded my account yet, so that could be it.
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